Everybody Wins: The Chapman Guide To Solving Conflicts Without Arguing (chapman Guides)
by Gary Chapman /
2007 / English / PDF
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Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we
engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at
hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an
argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live
with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your
friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning
arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple
blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and
disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting
each other's ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular
issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions
that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also
leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.
Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we
engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at
hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an
argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live
with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your
friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning
arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple
blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and
disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting
each other's ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular
issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions
that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also
leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.